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Why is outdoor play so important for young children?

Outdoor play gives a 3 to 5 year old the big movement, fresh air and free-range attention a screen cannot. Here is what the research says, how much they need, and simple ways to get it.

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Learning through play

What open-ended play does for your child (and how to do it at home)

A creative play studio in Adelaide showed me why open-ended, child-led play works so well for little kids, and how to set up the same thing at home for next to nothing.

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Learning through play

Does reading aloud to my child really make a difference?

Yes, and the research is unusually strong. Reading aloud to your 3 to 5 year old builds language, attention and school skills, even a few minutes a day. Here is what the studies show and how to get more out of one book.

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The hard hours

How do I help my child with big feelings?

A 3 to 5 year old having big feelings is not misbehaving. Their brain is still building the part that calms them down. Here is how to help, backed by research, without a screen or a sticker chart.

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AI & childhood

Given crayons and AI art, children chose the crayons

When researchers gave children AI art tools, many reached for real crayons instead, and felt more connected to what they made by hand. Here is why that matters.

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Screens & real life

How much screen time is OK for a 3 to 5 year old? What the research says

Health guidelines say no more than one hour of screen time a day for a 3 to 5 year old, and less is better. Here is what the research actually found, and what to do with the hours you free up.

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AI & childhood

How to raise an AI-ready child at 3 to 5, screen-free

You cannot teach a preschooler to use ChatGPT, and you should not try. Here is how to build the foundations of AI readiness at 3 to 5, entirely screen-free.

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AI & childhood

Why children are turning to AI, and what eSafety wants parents to know

Australia's eSafety Commissioner found that most kids aged 10 to 17 have used AI, many for advice and company. Here is what that means, and why the human skill of connection is built long before the teens.

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AI & childhood

Will AI make my child a lazy thinker? What 'cognitive debt' means

New brain research suggests that leaning on AI to do our thinking has a real cost, and it has a name: cognitive debt. Here is what it means for children, and why the early years are the best defence.

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AI & childhood

Your child is growing up with AI: what the numbers say

AI has gone from novelty to normal in a couple of years, and a quarter of primary-aged kids already use it. Here is what the data shows about the world your 3 to 5 year old is entering, and what to do about it.

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School readiness

Is my child ready for school? The skills that matter most

School readiness is less about knowing letters and numbers early, and more about whether a child can focus, wait, manage a big feeling and have a go. Here is what the long-run research says, and how to grow it through play.

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Learning through play

Why play is how young children actually learn

For a 3 to 5 year old, play is not a break from learning. It is the main way learning happens. Here is the science of play-based learning, the difference between free and guided play, and how to use it at home.

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Learning through play

How to raise a curious child (and why it matters now)

Curiosity is the engine under lifelong learning, and it is easy to grow or squash. Simple, screen-free ways to raise a curious 3 to 5 year old, and why it matters more in an AI world.

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AI & childhood

The human skills AI can't replace (and how to grow them early)

As AI gets better at the knowing and the doing, a handful of human skills only become more valuable. Here they are, and simple ways to grow them in a 3 to 5 year old.

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Play ideas

Screen-free activities for 3 year olds (that actually last)

The screen-free activities that genuinely hold a 3 year old's attention, why they work, and the trick to making them last longer than five minutes.

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AI & childhood

Will AI take my child's job? A calm look at the future of work

A steady, honest answer to the question every parent is asking. What AI is likely to change about work, what it can't, and how to prepare a 3 to 5 year old for either.

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AI & childhood

The eight human skills your child will need in an AI world

The jobs are changing faster than school can keep up. Here are the eight human strengths worth growing in your 3 to 5 year old now, and why they matter more than ever.

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Play ideas

20 screen-free activities you can do in ten minutes flat

No printing, no special kit, no big commitment. Twenty little bursts of real-world play for 3 to 5 year olds, using what is already in your house or backyard.

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The hard hours

The toddler witching hour: 5 calm ways through the 5pm meltdown

The witching hour, that meltdown-y stretch before dinner and bath, explained. Plus five quick, screen-free ways to calm a 3–5 year old and get everyone to bedtime in one piece.

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